The comment that enrages me the most is... She is your MOTHER, you should forgive her. HUH? The fact that she is my "mother" makes it MORE atrocious, not less. If I was attacked by a stranger, I doubt I would hear this "forgive her" comment. Another comment that enrages me... "She did the "best" she could" How ridiculous is that! Or how about... that is how it was "in those days" I'm 45 years old as if systematic torture was acceptable in 1970s? These ignorant fools really piss me off!